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Dealing with Imposter Syndrome

Hello Poetteers, A few months ago there was a hashtag, the imperfect boss , going around and it got me thinking. Last week I read a blog post about the imposter syndrome and I knew I had to speak up. The imposter syndrome is “a collection of feelings of inadequacy that persist even in face of information that indicates that the opposite is true.” Sometimes I don't feel like a real poet. I feel like i'm just putting together words. Poetry is an art that evokes emotion. My readers remind me that I do just that. In another article I was reading it gave tips on how to ground you. You should really listen to the feedback, write it down with the examples that prove that. When you feel lost and concerned take a look at what readers have had to say. stay inspired, Fida

Poetry Tuesday: Needing Spoken Word

Hello Poetteers,   I haven't preformed spoken word but I want to. I've read out my poems a few times. Public speaking isn't my thing, it scares me. Before I go on stage it's nerve wrecking. With poetry I'm a different person. I don't run away from the opportunity. I enjoy it. Once I loosen up I'm loud and clear. I even surprise myself with my voice.  I don't let myself give it a second thought. I don't let doubt creep in. I even lead a poetry workshop once. It's exhilarating experience. It is something I want to do again.  I need to work on bringing the power of my voice through the words and emotion. I love hearing the silence and the snaps. The room is dimmed. It's a cool environment. It will be even better when I bring in all that I want to work on. *originally talked about on the # poetrychat . stay inspired, Fida

How I Started To Own My Story

Hello Poetteers, As a young girl with a mother who sold Islamic books that was all I read. As I grew up I started going to the public library and bookstore. I didn't find any books with Muslim characters. I would occasionally find a non fiction book stating the basic facts of Islam. I have a love for story telling and am an avid reader. At a young age I started to write my own stories. They weren't exactly my own. My characters weren't Muslim and had white sounding names. I didn't feel any emotion in these stories because I wasn't attached. I kept writing them, though. It was all I knew. Eventually I found a novel that had a Muslim character. Reading that story gave me the push to write my actual own story. It takes one story for you to get going and keep going. Write the story for yourself first. Ask yourself what you want to hear and read. Since then I barely find any Muslim driven stories but I keep writing. In the back of my head, though, I was scare...

Putting my Beliefs in my Poetry

Hello Poetteers,  Some authors believe their beliefs in love and life should show through in their writing while others feel that they shouldn't and the beliefs that show up in the story is up to the character. In fiction stories, whether it's the author's beliefs or the character's beliefs, it is understandable but non-fiction is different. You write of your beliefs and your beliefs should shine through. I'm picky about the songs I listen to. When I listen to songs, I stop if they are inappropriate. Inappropriate to me is drugs and sex. Drugs isn't good to do and sex is something that holds a special meaning and should be private instead of being overly described. There is a fine line. You want it to be normal but you don't want it to be overly described that it takes away from what it is. Lots of well known songs talk of a lover. It's romantic but some are too sexual for listeners to think of anything else other than that. If the sex i...

Top 5 Reasons I'm Grateful

Hello Poetteers, As I look at my previous blessings posts I realized I have a lot of repetition. I will look deeper. I encourage you to look deeper, as well. 1. Put a hand over your beating heart. 2. I like finding new online friends with inspiring messages. 3. Glad to have in real life friends who put in the effort in everything. 4. Arab sweets are the best. 5. Hard times are learning experiences. 6. This creative/writing/poetry business is something I will continue to navigate. Stay inspired, Fida

22 Blessings for Turning 23!

Hello Poetteers, Today is my birthday and I'm counting my blessings. Celebrate along with me by counting your blessings. 1. Sunshine 2. New dresses 3. That moment when you feel like you have the place to yourself. 4. Birds chirping 5. The strength my faith and Ramadan together give me. 6. chocolate chip cookies with coconut on top! 7. Being exposed to multiple cultures and being part of multiple cultures. 8. For late nights of sudden inspiration to write. 9. For early mornings of silence. 10. I'm lucky to know my passions and know myself. 11. Time on my side. 12. Great conversations 13. Good food and fruits 14. Finding the right headscarf 15. Finding what you thought would be lost forever. 16. Chocolate covered pretzels 17. The moon and stars shining above us. 18. The tree that provides shade. 19. Reading your favorite books. 20. My cats are the cutest! 21. My family is the coolest. 22. The support from the friends around me. Stay inspired, Fid...

Behind the Poem: Doodle

Hello Poetteers, Doodle Doodle after doodle each outstanding and unique just like you (read the whole poem when you buy the book ) Before this poem was published in A to Z Poetry , it was written for a different purpose. It was a gift for a friend. The poem was inspired by said friend for their own passion. The story of knowing this person is special to me. From afar, I admired their art. As with every person you are talented in one thing and end up struggling in something else. I was able to be there to help. I wanted to remember that some way and this poem was born. For this poem and many other poems, you can get a copy of A to Z Poetry on Smashwords for $.99 using the code YE68T. Twitter-sized bite: Go behind the scenes of the poem, Doodle, by @poetfida.  (Tweet it!) stay inspired, Fida